Can We Be Perfect??



       Ever since Adam and Eve were placed in the garden, we as humans have acknowledged and perhaps even embraced our “humanity.”  We recognize that we are imperfect creatures, subject to the whims of circumstance and emotion.  To put it in a more modern vernacular, we throw out the phrase, “Every man has his price.”  Of course, in our current enlightened society and with increased sensitivity to political correctness, we probably should make that statement, “Every man or woman has his or her price.”  Regardless, you get the point.  We as a general populace readily profess that we are willing to sell our possessions, wives, kids, souls, reputations, and futures if the price is right.  As proof, check out the latest news wherein athletes, businessmen, and common individuals abandon contracts if offered a better deal elsewhere, common thieves sell their futures for whatever they can find in your car, and reputations are tossed aside if offered enough incentive.  Finally, Christians sometimes dismiss all that they have professed for years if faced with enough stress, disappointment, or temptation.

   Many churches accept the fallibility of people and actually build a church on the concept of inevitable imperfection.  Salvation and forgiveness are considered sort of like prepaid gift cards; since it is inevitable that we will fall, we make no attempt to avoid failure because we can always whip out the “forgiveness” card and make everything all okay.  There is no incentive to really change a life style. “Come as you are!” the churches proclaim, “and you can stay as you are, because, since we’re all imperfect, we’ll be a happy family of social imperfects.”  The informality carries through to the church service itself, where the pastor delivers the “word” in jeans and tee-shirt, the members appear as though they just came from Walmart, the music is hip and contemporary, and there’s plenty of snacks, drinks, and activities for everyone.  There are no requirements for membership…just come and join…and you’re in.

    Interestingly, in contrast to this contemporary, laid-back approach to religion, the scriptures give evidence that God has always demanded perfection from those who profess to follow him.  The history of the children of Israel in the Old Testament gives multiple testimonies of the explicit instructions God gave for worship, for sacrifices, for the building of the Tabernacle in the Wilderness, for the Jerusalem temple, and even to individuals for various actions, and failure to follow the orders led to dire consequences.  We hear a lot of discussion in our schools today concerning “no tolerance” rules, which mean fundamentally “one strike, and you’re out.”  It appears that the God of the Old Testament was the originator of that concept.

     The definition of perfect is “pure, complete in all respects, without defects, flawless, complete excellence.”   There are no degrees of perfection….an item is either perfect or it is not.  An item is either pure or it is not; an item is either flawless or it is not.  Yet, in comparison to the word “charity” which appears only 26 times in the scriptures, the word “perfect” appears 124 times…usually to describe a person that God himself called “perfect” or to describe what God demanded as a life style for an individual.  Job was described as “a perfect man,’ and God told Abraham in no uncertain terms, “Be thou perfect.”  Note the following scripture…could this be the eleventh commandment?   Deuteronomy 18:13   “Thou shall be perfect with the Lord thy God.”  A sampling of additional verses:
  • Genesis 8:9   “Noah was a just man and perfect in his generations.”
  • I Kings 15:11  “Asa’s heart was perfect with the Lord all his days.”
  • Psalm 101:2   “I will behave myself wisely in a perfect way…I will walk within my house in a perfect way.”
  • II Kings 8:61   “Let your heart therefore be perfect with the Lord your God…to walk in His statures, and to keep His commandments.”
    This requirement for perfection extends into the New Testament in the words of Jesus Christ himself:
  • Matthew 5:48  “Be ye therefore perfect, even as your Father which is in heaven is perfect.”
    And throughout the letters to the churches the apostles, repeated:
  • II Corinthians 13:11  “Finally, brethren, be perfect, be of good comfort, be of one mind, live in peace…”
   The apostle even described the type of church that the Lord was preparing for himself:
  • Ephesians 5:27  “That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot,  or wrinkle, or any such thing, but that it should be holy and without blemish (perfect).”
    The most fascinating scripture, however, is the following where the apostle exhorts the brethren to “continue to press toward the mark for the prize…” and acknowledges that he is addressing “perfect” people:
  • Phillippians 3:15  “Let us therefore, as many as be perfect, be thus minded, and if in anything ye be otherwise minded, God shall reveal even this to you.”
     After reading these and most of the other 124 scriptures concerning perfection, I had to ask myself a question.  How can anyone who is a descendant of Adam’s race, born into imperfection, become perfect as scripturally required?   How can something imperfect ever be made perfect?  The answer lies in the following scriptures…just a sampling of many:
  • Hebrews 9:22  “And almost all things are by the law purged (purified, cleansed, made perfect) with blood; without the shedding of blood is no remission.”
  • Hebrews 9:14  “How much more shall the blood of Christ, who through the eternal spirit offered himself without spot to God, purge (cleanse) your conscience from dead works to serve the living God?”
  • Titus 2:14  “Who gave himself for us, that he might redeem us from all iniquity, and purify (perfect) unto himself a peculiar people, zealous of good works.”
  • II Samuel 22:33  “God is my strength and power; and he maketh my way perfect.”
     Through baptism in the name of Jesus and the infilling of the Holy Ghost as describes in several chapters of the Acts of the Apostles, we are made perfect through His salvation.  We are described as becoming “new creatures in Christ,” but our salvation is just the beginning of our journey.  However, having been made perfect (pure) through remission in His name, how do we maintain our purity?
  • I Peter 1:22  “Seeing ye have purified your souls in obeying the truth through the Spirit….see that ye love one another with a pure heart fervently.”
  • I John 2:15  “Love not the world, neither the things in the world.  If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him.”
  • Phillippians 2:12-15  “Wherefore, my brethren, ….work out your own salvation with fear and trembling….That ye may be blameless and harmless, the sons of God, without rebuke.”
  • Phillippians 4:8  Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest….whatsoever things are pure…..think on these things.”
  • Matthew 5:8  “Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God.”
When a potter picks up a lump of clay, he does not see a malformed, unsightly bit of wet dirt; what he sees is the finished product…a beautiful ceramic vase or other work of art.  The beauty of salvation is that, although God does demand perfection, when He looks on us, He does not see us as we are.  Rather, He sees what we can become if we allow Him to mold our live in accordance with His will.  Do we become the perfect creature overnight?  No, it is a process of development, and with our human nature resisting that spiritual nature we have taken on, we sometime stumble and make mistakes, but He understands:
  • I John 1:9  (The apostle was writing this letter to people already in the church.) “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.”
  • Psalm 86:5  “For thou, Lord, art good, and ready to forgive, and plenteous in mercy unto all them that call on thee.”


Disappointed...in God?


    I wrote in a previous blog (“Into the Batter’s Box…Again) of my experiences with cancer-related issues.  I closed that little essay with the statement that I had at that time (November, 2014) been diagnosed with chronic lymphocytic leukemia, commonly referred to as CLL.  I was comforted at the time by my skilled doctor at M.D. Anderson Cancer Clinic that CLL was a very slow working form of leukemia, sometimes not active for years, and that my level of progress of the disease was very low.  It was, he said, just a matter of monitoring the problem with no treatment planned on the horizon.In March of this year (2015) I revisited MDA (the term of affection for M.D. Anderson) and after $16,000 worth of testing (!) was again reassured that all was under control, and monitoring would continue as needed.  I felt comfortable with the diagnosis and prognosis.  Since that date I have felt well and hearty, probably partly because I have lost a lot of weight on purpose, and as a result I’ve had less baggage to haul around, so I’ve had a corresponding reduction in blood pressure and periods of extreme fatigue.  But…the disease has still been there lurking somewhere in my bloodstream.
    Fast forward to the recent past at my church, Bethel Tabernacle.  Anyone who has been a relatively faithful attendee in the last couple of months will tell you that we have heard several unusually powerful and moving sermons from our pastor, our associate ministers, and even visiting ministers about the healing power of God, and as each sermon was delivered, it seemed that the message was directed to me…to the point that in one sermon the minister referred to “a faithful member of the church who is suffering from cancer.”  I understood at the time that the minister was probably referring to one of our established members who is known to be suffering from the dreaded disease, but even with that, the statement came close to me, primarily because I had not advertised my own health situation very openly.
   During two separate services, when prayer for the health-challenged was offered, the ministers of the church anointed me with oil and prayed as the scriptures suggested, and I felt a tremendous touch of…whatever you want to call it…virtue, healing, spirit, or God (all the same, anyway), and I, after the second prayer, felt that my situation with leukemia had possibly, even probably, been abated.  I felt such, to the point that I looked forward to my visit to MDA on Wednesday, October 28, because I fully expected my doctor to look at my lab work and tests and be amazed at the unexplainable positive changes that had occurred in my blood.  I was so confident that I told my wife that she did not need to travel with me to MDA, because I was expecting a very positive outcome to my tests.  She was scheduled to work that day, and usually she cancels her work to go with me, but that morning I drove away from our home in high spirits.
    All my tests were done by 10:30, so I dawdled and wandered around until my 1:00 appointment with Doctor Ravandi, who has been my doctor since 2008.  At precisely 1:00 p.m. I was ushered into the patient’s room and as usual interviewed by his nurse, then his physician’s assistant.  The PA was looking at the computer screen on the desk asking me questions about my medications, feelings, last six months’ events, etc., and when he finished, he left, saying that Doctor Ravandi would be available in a few minutes.  The computer was still running, however, and I, being the nosey soul that I am, decided to take a look at my medical charts and the results of the blood tests of three hours earlier.  What I saw (I’m learning to read those charts), left me cold.
   It was abundantly clear that my “dormant” CLL was on the move.  Without getting into technicalities, everything about my blood that was supposed to be low was rapidly increasing, and everything that was supposed to be high was dropping like a rock.  I was stunned and disbelieving, and under my breath whispered, “Oh, God, can this be true?”  I felt as if I had been promised a valued prize and at the last minute had it snatched away.  When Doctor Ravandi entered the room a little later, I did not react much to what he had to say because I was already a little numb.  I have described in an earlier essay the moment I was told I had cancer in 2008.  This moment was not as traumatic as that, but it was a shock, anyway.  He told me what I had already determined, but offered the analysis that the progression of the disease had not reached the treatment stage.  By next May (my next appointment), however, he stated if the current activity continued, we would begin some sort of procedure.  Apparently the general consensus is that until a certain level of progression in some diseases is reached, early treatment can actually be counterproductive.  It’s sort of like when I had the blockage in my carotid artery in my neck cleared in May, the blockage had been there for at least eight years, but until the blockage reached 70%, no surgery was planned.  Doesn’t make sense, but that’s the way it’s done.
    I said my goodbyes to my medical team and headed home.  I had a hard time concentrating on the traffic because I was so disappointed in the news I had received.  I had been so confident…so full of faith…in the expectation of receiving a great report that I had trouble grasping what had taken place.  If you’ve ever tried to pray and drive in heavy traffic at the same time, it’s pretty challenging.  Actually, I suppose anytime one gets on the streets of Houston, praying while driving is a necessary practice.
    In a short while, however…even before I arrived home…I began to feel a comforting spirit from God descend around me, and I remembered some of the statements I have both said and written during earlier trying times.  God’s time is not our time; sometimes healing comes, and sometimes it does not.  If we were all healed every time we became ill, we would all live forever, but our forever will come in the next life, not here on earth.  I taught a series of lessons a few years ago on “Seeking the Will of God,” and I learned that the only stated will of God in the scriptures is that “none should perish, but all have eternal life.”  Everything that He allows to happen to us is geared toward pushing us in the right direction to insure our eternal salvation.  Healing occasionally comes, wealth may come, earthly security may come, but those blessings are at best only supplemental to His divine plan for us…that we be saved.  It is our job to accept His plan for each of us and follow his leading and inspiration.  He promised, “I will be with you…even to the end of the earth.”
    So I have accepted the situation, perhaps as a child does when he/she is denied a toy.  There is initial disappointment, but just as children eventually understand that their parents still love them in spite of saying “no,” the disappointment quickly fades and the love remains as strong as ever.  I understand that in His time, all will end well.  I will live each day enjoying the blessing of having His spirit near me.  Healing may come, but, if not, He is still my provider, benefactor, and soon coming King.  Blessed be the Name of the Lord.

Election 2016


   In the latter years of the Vietnam War, the United States military unofficially adopted a controversial tactical strategy in a desperate attempt to halt the encroachments of the Viet Cong and North Vietnamese troops into the villages of South Vietnam as they slowly but surely advanced toward the capital city of Saigon and capture of the entire country.  The United States in the late ‘60s had begun massive sweeps of the countryside outside Saigon using grandiose nomenclatures like “Operation Thunder” with the noble intent of clearing areas and villages of the dreaded Viet Cong and restoring order and peace to the allegedly loyal citizens of the target areas. By clearing areas of the enemy, the objective was to slowly recapture the countryside and save South Vietnam from a communist takeover.
    The United States soon learned that the task was comparable to holding back the tide with a mop.  Moving into a village, the US military would find a quaint, idyllic Vietnamese citizenry busy with all the duties of a township with nary a sign of the enemy…especially confusing when just a few hours earlier military intelligence had indicated that the place was a beehive of enemy activity.  Compounding the difficulty was trying to identify the enemy at all…many Viet Cong troops dressed in the standard clothing of the country villager and became part of the village populace simply by hiding any trace of weaponry.  The US military would search a village, and occasionally the enemy would make a mistake in unsuccessfully hiding their weapons.  Retribution quickly followed, but, more times than not, the US military was frustrated in its lack of engagement with the enemy.  This frustration led to a logical conclusion:  if military intelligence had positive proof that a village was a haven for the enemy, and there seemed to be no evidence that the local citizens were being cooperative in identifying the enemy, the village was put to the torch and burned to the ground.  This military policy was bluntly explained one evening on national news when a military official was asked about the burning of a village, and he replied, “In order to save the village, we had to destroy it.”
    Much has been written in recent years of the general frustration of the United States citizenry with its government.  Though we pride ourselves with our democratic process and look with disdain at other not-freely elected governments around the globe, we are still disappointed at the seeming inability of the U.S. government to face the issues confronting our country today and come up with solutions to our problems.  It is not a problem which has surfaced only since Barack Obama became president; it has extended backward through several previous administrations, and the prognosis for the future is not encouraging.  In the richest country in the world we have one of the highest percentages in the world of children who nightly go to be hungry, of citizens who cannot afford proper health care, and of elderly who have no place to go for security.
    Democracy, by its very name is…well…democratic.  While it is a form of government founded upon the concept of rule by the majority, it is also founded upon the principle that any governmental decision will be made with general welfare of the population in mind.  Democracy by it very modus operandi requires compromise, and every law and every decision is an amalgamation of the corporate minds which joined together to make the decision.  The problem with democracy is that it occasionally clashes with individual principle.  Consider the hypothetical situation of an elected official who has sworn to his constituents “No new taxes!” and then has to consider a proposed bill which would take care of a serious problem in the country…but the final version of the bill as drawn up by his associates contains a tax increase.  Although it will ease a problem in the country, does he vote to pass the law and in doing so override his principles, or does he stand firm, waving his flag of unbent principle, and let the country suffer the consequences?  In today’s political climate, we have many politicians who have adopted the strategy of “destroying the village in order to save it.”  Rather than reach a political compromise on an issue which would help ease the concern of the populace, many lawmakers would rather see the country suffer than renege on an unwise commitment or pledge made in the heat of political campaigning…a commitment or pledge which should have never been made in the first place.
    Unfortunately for our country, both major political parties have adopted the “destroy to save” philosophy, and it depends upon who is in power as to what role each party plays.  With the current Democratic president, the Republicans have adopted the knee-jerk reflex of “No!” to anything President Obama remotely suggests.  Knowing that the 2016 elections are on the horizon and seeing the light at the end of the Obama presidential term, Republicans are digging in their heels and throwing out every possible stumbling block to any potential political success for the Democrats…and the country founders with high unemployment, porous borders, a shaky economy, crumbling infrastructure, and rising crime.  Please understand…I am not a Democrat and am not a fan of President Obama.  He and the Democrats have done their fair share of uncompromising destruction.  During the George Bush (43) presidency, the tables were turned, and it was the Democrats who were stumbling blocks, and any legislation which may have benefited President Bush or the Republican Party was soundly squashed…in the name of “principle,” and Bush, being loyal to Republican “principles” was not anxious to cooperate with the Democratic Congress.
    If you ask any politician in the country about democracy, the instant response is “Democracy is the greatest form of government on the face of the planet.”  However, if you ask what the definition of democracy is, the response will be divided into two camps.  These two camps represent two versions of the same delusion.
    The believers of the first version of democracy can quote the Declaration of Independence and the Constitution from memory.  They are for a government which is mostly kept at a distance, allowing the individual to soar like eagles to unlimited success with the least amount of restriction.  Everyone in this democracy contributes a fair share to the government for basic services such as national defense, but a person’s well being is a personal responsibility.  In this democracy, every person is born healthy and disease free with a marketable talent which allows for the achievement of success.  Working hard and not abusing the rights of others, these believers live fruitful lives, leaving legacies of great influence.  The difficulty with this form of democracy is that it does not know how to handle those individuals who do not fit into the mold.  Forgive me for mentioning the Bible, but even Jesus said, “The poor you have with you always.”  In this form of democracy, if one is “poor” it must be because he/she has not exerted adequate effort to reach the inborn potential which is in every person.  To offer alms to the poor is to deter their work initiative.   
    Along with the poor are the physically challenged be it through injury, birth, or disease.  Knowledgeable people have proposed that, to cut our health costs in this nation, committees should determine how expensive extending the life of a disabled person would be, and, if the cost is prohibitive, health care should be withheld.  I guess it would be the natural thing to do.  After all, in nature, there are many examples of infant creatures that are abandoned to die by their mothers for the good of the healthy ones.  So a person’s health would be a personal responsibility and dependent upon the person’s ability to pay for services.  What I find fascinating about this group is that most believers are aggressively pro-life when it comes to the abortion issue, arguing about the sanctity of the unborn child, etc.  However, if that child is born with a defect, well, we hope mom has good insurance.  If the child is born to poor parents, it’s the parents’ fault…but the child suffers because the government will not offer any helping hand (hurts the budget, you know.)
    Lastly, those in this form of democracy have not learned the lessons of human greed.  One never has enough money, power, or prestige, and without restrictions or governmental regulations big businesses will stretch ethical boundaries far beyond the breaking point.  Competition, which is a concept hallowed in the annals of capitalism, is not restricted to obtaining the largest share of the market but also eliminating as many competitors as possible on the way to the top. Therefore the “pursuit of happiness” mentioned in the declaration may in fact require the deterrence of happiness in someone else.  But, hey, that’s competition.
     At the other end of the spectrum (other side of the aisle, as it were) is the second group of democratic proponents.  Interestingly enough, they, too, are familiar with “life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness,” but at that point the similarities end.  Because the citizenry is united under the government’s guidance, a newborn child becomes in effect a ward of the state.  Every citizen has the right to the pursuit of happiness, but if another citizen cannot…or chooses not…to make that pursuit, it is the responsibility of all others to “carry those who cannot walk.”  An incredible fact of this group, however, is that the government’s concern for you only begins at birth.  Should a child be undesired prior to birth, an abortion is acceptable with no consequence; however, should that fetus somehow survive to birth, the child is offered cradle to grave security.
    This group has a great distain for the natural competitiveness of man.  It is convinced of the innate greed of corporate America and therefore attempts to control business activities and restrict success, or at least force it to be spread around to more recipients.  The result is excessive restrictions causing hesitancy among businesses to invest and take risks.  Additionally, should some citizens exceed the “normal” levels of success, they should be taxed more heavily because they have more to spend.
     It is in the area of “liberty” where the two groups most contrast.  The second group interprets liberty to mean unbridled freedom.  When the constitution mentions freedom of speech, it means you can say anything you wish, no matter how offensive and no matter the consequences.  There is no decorum or standard of behavior because there is total freedom.  Freedom to choose is interpreted to mean the rights of one may infringe upon the rights of others.  Although a majority of the group may have an opinion in a particular matter, one objection can stop the discussion.  As an example, polls concerning prayer in schools have always shown a tremendous majority in favor, but due to the efforts of a scattered few, there now is no prayer.  It is due to the efforts of this group that we can now enjoy pornography in our homes and obnoxious behavior in our stores and schools.  It is through the efforts of this group that we are now enjoying the greatest federal deficits in the history of our nation with scant positive results. There is another word for unbridled, unlimited freedom…anarchy. 
     As we enter the election process of 2016, we have seen the polarization of the two major parties into the two camps described above.  Most of the candidates offered to the electorate subscribe to one or the other of the two positions, and that’s the tragedy of this election because both positions are disastrous for our country.  Forgive me for being biblical again, but many times in the scriptures, the word “moderation” pops up when discussing actions or behaviors.  It is not just a biblical philosophy but one that has been expounded by many, and it is a philosophy which works in government and politics, also.  The essential element to democracy which has become anathema to many in the political spectrum these days is moderation…a “give and take” in the halls of government which allows for solutions to national issues to be reached.  In truth, government must be friendly to business to encourage investment while at the same time monitoring corporate policies and operations.  A businessman will borrow money to expand his business, knowing that he will be able to repay the loan with increased sales and profits.  At times, a government may also borrow money to invest in people or infrastructure, but it should only be done when there is a good chance of a return on the investment and a repayment of the loan. It must offer help and assistance to those less fortunate while making it clear that effort must be made to stand on one’s own feet.  It must value life from conception to burial, and make it clear there are standards of speech and behavior which respect the privacy of others.  The interesting note here is that these positions are reflected by a majority of the citizens of the United States.  Is there a candidate who subscribes to these basic principles?  If there is, he or she is probably being vilified for lacking "principles."  Unfortunately, it seems to be both those in power and those who are aspiring to power embrace only the two extreme positions.  The United State needs a healer, not a divider.

    

"And They Spake with Tongues..." Acts 19:6


    If you are a Pentecostal, an Apostolic, or an evangelical Christian who believes in glossolalia, the spiritual phenomenon referred to as “speaking in tongues,” this little essay may be of interest to you, but if you are a nonbeliever in the concept of spiritual edification through an experience such as glossolalia, don’t waste your time. Even if you read it you probably wouldn’t believe it…which, of course, is your inalienable right.  Actually, the idea of “believing” in speaking in tongues is somewhat misleading. Those who do not believe are those who have never experienced the phenomenon and as a result will never have to worry about the experience. Interestingly however, for those who aspire to experience speaking in tongues, belief in the possibility is a prerequisite to the experience. Finally, to those who have experienced the sensation, it becomes no longer a matter of belief but a matter of fact.  The “believer” becomes a “knower.” “Receiving the Holy Ghost” becomes as much an incontrovertible fact as the daily rising and setting of the sun.
     This essay has not been written to convince anyone via biblical scriptures of the validity of “speaking in tongues as the spirit gives the utterance” (to quote a famous verse.)  It is assumed that the reader has already read the many scriptures referring to the experience and understands that receiving the Holy Ghost with the evidence of speaking in tongues was one of the foundations of the early church and is still evident in the 21st century.  What I would like to talk about for a few sentences are my own experiences with the phenomenon over the past many years.  First let me discuss my general observations of how speaking in tongues works in most church congregations…that is to say, those congregations which in fact do “believe.”
     The date/time that a believer speaks in tongues for the first time…and concurrently changes from a “believer” to a “knower”...is the moment that the believer is said to have “received the Holy Ghost.”  That date is celebrated as a spiritual birthday for when he/she is “born again” of the spirit.  That moment fulfills and repeats the experience mentioned many times in the New Testament concerning believers being “filled with the Holy Ghost, with the evidence of speaking in tongues.”  So the first time a believer experiences speaking in tongues is with the initial infilling of the Holy Ghost.
     In addition, throughout a believer’s life there will be moments of close spiritual relationship with God…usually moments of intense praise or worship…when the phenomenon of speaking in tongues will reappear.  Both scriptures and ministers refer to these moments as times of “refreshing” or “blessing.”  Whatever the reason or God’s purpose, the result is generally a strengthening of the resolve of the recipient to continue to attempt to live a life which is pleasing to God.  These moments of speaking in tongues may be during very personal prayer time and done in a quiet emotional manner or loudly in a church during a noisy emotional group worship and praise service.  Unlike the initial receiving of the Holy Ghost, which signifies a spiritual rebirth of a person, these moments of praise and speaking in tongues reflect simply instances of intense blessing and refreshing.  They are memorable moments of a more personal spiritual communication with our God.
    The frequency of these special blessing moments varies with each person.  There are some persons who, after the initial receiving of the Holy Ghost, seldom if ever speak in tongues again for the rest of their lives; there are others, however, who seem to have the ability (or spirituality) to speak in tongues practically on a daily basis.  After all, even the great Apostle Paul stated that he was happy he “spoke in tongues more than you all.”  I have neither the scriptural knowledge nor personal wisdom to judge a person on the frequency of his/her speaking in tongues, but I do not believe that the frequency of tongues is evidence of a person’s spirituality.  In fact, I suspect that the measure of value of the frequency of tongues may be closely related to a law of economics, namely the law of supply, which states the greater the supply of a commodity, the lower the value.  A person who cannot walk into a church house without speaking in tongues cheapens the value of the experience.  As in the economic law of supply, there is a point of equilibrium where the frequency of supply represents the true value.
    The third use of tongues in scripture is described in the book of Isaiah when the prophet wrote, “With stammering lips and an unknown tongue will He speak to his people.”  There are moments in a church service, usually moments of quiet and intense prayer, when a minister or even a member of the congregation will begin to speak in tongues.  Inevitably during these moments a quiet hush will engulf the audience and a deep, reverential spirit will sweep the room.  If the moment is right, a few seconds later, another audience member or minister will begin to repeat the spiritual message, but this time in English (or the home language of the congregation) so that all can understand what instruction or edification God may have for the listeners.  It is a time of intense personal self-evaluation, and many times the message is one of encouragement and personal reconsecration.
    There is another aspect to all three types of speaking in tongues I have described…that of the accompanying spirit that complements each evidence of speaking in tongues.  Because speaking in tongues is a physical manifestation of a spiritual move of God, it can be duplicated easily by persons who wish to misrepresent their spirituality.  I have a close friend who, when he was seeking God in his earlier years, was taken into an office by a Pentecostal minister and told he would “teach him how to speak in tongues.”  My good friend, although young in his spiritual walk, knew there was more to speaking in tongues than learning a few syllables of unintelligible gibberish.  He received his own Holy Ghost experience later. 
    Shirley and I have, over our many years of church attendance, been in countless services in which there was speaking in tongues.  In the vast majority of cases, the accompanying spirit verified the validity of the worship we felt.  But because humans will be, well, human, in every church there are occasions when the speaking in tongues is suspect.  I am not a professional linguist, although I was Russian interpreter in the military years ago.  When listening to a foreign language, however, I have learned to listen for repeated or common syllables or phrases, and even though I may not understand the meanings, I can recognize the repeated terms.  Occasionally I can hear someone who begins to speak in tongues, and I can predict what they are going to say because they say the same phrases over and over again, service after service.  I do not judge them; perhaps they have their own pet phrases in their communication with God.  But the economic law of supply pops into my mind each time I hear them.
    On June 4, 1958, about 11:00 p.m. on a Wednesday night at a Texas UPC Youth Camp, I received my personal Holy Ghost.  Even though I was just a teenager, it was a euphoric, life changing experience, and I changed from a “believer” to a “knower.”  Scoffers and doubters can discount the experience, but not to one who has truly felt the moment.  Throughout the years during times of personal worship and instances of high praise in church services, I have spoken in tongues, but I would not describe myself as one who is quick to speak.  I have always been somewhat of a realist who needed concrete proof of a concept before accepting it as fact.  Even today during moments when I feel the spirit of God about me, I have a tendency to ask myself whether I am just feeling the emotion of the moment or whether it is in fact God’s spirit touching me. That probably explains why, even though I grew up in church, it took me until I was fifteen years old to receive the Holy Ghost…long after all my peers had enjoyed their own baptisms.  The whole idea of speaking in tongues seemed far-fetched and unreachable for me…until it actually happened.
    A few Sunday nights ago, I experienced a sensation that I have never felt in a church service in my 65 years of church attendance.  We had a visiting minister who delivered a wonderful sermon, but to be totally honest I don’t remember what it was about, I guess because of the experience I had toward the end of the service..  At the end of his sermon the minister and the church began to pray and within a matter of minutes a spirit of deep, profound worship spread over the entire audience.  There was no shouting, no noise…just a sort of cross between a moan and a sound of many voices fervently, yet quietly praying.  The minister, with his sensitive and guiding spirit, told us to pray more fervently because “God is wanting to speak to us.”
    I mentioned earlier the phenomenon of “tongues and interpretation” occurring during a church service.  In most situation, those who speak in tongues during these times are said to have the “gift of tongues.”  It is one of the gifts of the spirit that was given to the early church along with the gifts of faith, healing, discerning of spirits, and others.  I have never considered myself as having any special gift (and still don’t), but when the minister instructed us to pray and “wait on the Lord,” I, in a matter of seconds, felt an overwhelming flood of spirit which prompted me to stand and raise my hands in intense worship.  I began to weep and quietly praise Him under my breath.  I wept, not with sadness, but an intense feeling of gratitude and humility, and the more I worshipped, the more I felt I needed to say something out loud.  I began to speak in a low voice, and I was speaking in tongues, yet I could not bring myself to speak loudly as if to the church because, even as I spoke quietly, I felt unworthy and unqualified to be in such an esteemed situation.  I was afraid that I would say something wrong or would stop the other unknown person in the audience who had the true message from delivering to the church what it needed to hear.
    The church waited in hushed anticipation for what seemed like an eternity while I struggled with the spirit which I felt…a spiritual pressure to speak but a fear to do so.  When it seemed like the moment of communication had nearly passed, a woman across the audience, a precious soul who has delivered messages in tongues before, began to speak.  She spoke in tongues for just a short while, but then delivered the interpretation which struck me like a freight train.  She said in her interpretation, “Fear not!…Fear not to desire and enjoy the manifestations of the spirit!”  God was talking to the church, I’m sure, but the message was also telling me to not be afraid of being used by the spirit.  I began to worship Him even more earnestly, grateful for His touch, and somewhat amazed that He would send a message I felt directly intended for me.
    Days have passed since that moment, and I can’t get it out of my mind.  I have dreamed about it and contemplated it, and also wondered, since I failed to follow His guiding spirit in that singular instance, will He ever touch me like that again.  At the following Thursday night prayer meeting, I prayed with an earnestness I haven’t felt for a long time.  It is not the phenomenon of speaking in tongues I desire, it is the feeling of the closeness of His spirit that so affected me that I will never forget it.  It left me with a determination to reach more fervently for Him and to be sensitive to His spirit.

Men's Conference 2015


  
Jerry Stewart, John Cook, Prentiss Smith
 
Most Pentecostal people are social animals; they love to get together…be it for a church service, a lunch, a dinner, a home visit, or simply a cup of coffee.  Perhaps it is because we share a like faith and consider that shared faith not just a spare tire to use in time of sickness or trouble, but rather a template for living.  In doing so, a spiritual bond forms that very truly can become stronger than blood relations, and we as believers and participants in the spiritual march learn to depend on and assist one another in time of trouble or victory.
    The United Pentecostal Church, International, being the organizational glue that connects like-minded churches across the nation, divides America up into districts, and within each district are smaller administrative groups until one finally gets down to the organization of a local church.  There are men’ groups, women’s groups, seniors’ groups, young married groups, single young people’s groups, youth groups, kiddie groups…you name it…all designed to foster a comradeship and spiritual bond of fellowship.
    My group is the SODWAOTHs…Senior Old Dudes Who Are over the Hill.  OK, OK, I sort of made that up on the spur of the moment, but there really is a group called the South Texas District United Pentecostal Church Men’s Fellowship. (I think “fellowship” is the last word in the title.)  This group of men, led by an administrative staff, meets once a year for a South Texas Men’s Conference…although calling it a “conference” is a bit of a stretch.  It really isn’t a conference, but rather lots of music and lots of preaching.  There are no conference committees, no issues to be discussed, and no seminars to attend…just some heavy duty preachin’.
   Actually, the more I think about it, there is a local group called the SODWAOTHs, and we meet every Friday at our local Denny’s Restaurant to solve the issues of the day.  We never gossip…everything we talk about is absolute fact.  We determined a few weeks ago that we would try visiting the upcoming South Texas District Men’s Conference one more time.  Our last visit to San Antonio had been…shall we say…disappointing (See my blog “The Concert”  http://www.bobdowning.blogspot.com/2013/05/the-concert.html ), and we had pretty well written off ever going back.  I mean, the last place I heard music like that, they were serving hard liquor.
    But this time there was a powerful incentive to go back to the “conference.”   Our own beloved pastor, David Fauss was to be one of the speakers, along with a Reverend Jerry Dean, a minister who visited our church about a month ago and delivered one of the most astute (and ignored by most ministers) sermons I have ever heard.  We decided that with proper preparation (heavy duty ear plugs, a backup iPod with decent music, and an escape plan, if needed, in the conference auditorium, it would be worth the effort to go hear what we knew would be at least two outstanding sermons.  The meeting was to be Friday night and Saturday, May 15-16, 2015, so we made hotel reservations and prepared to head west.  In the final head count, there were four of us: Brothers (spiritually) Jerry Stewart, John Cook, and his father-in-law, Prentiss Smith, and myself.  I was glad Brother Smith was coming along because he is a long standing member of Bethel Tabernacle and a board member of impeccable credentials who would give us instant respectability in case we got ourselves in trouble.
    Whatever was to happen on Friday, it had to happen after our Denny’s breakfast, so it was not until around 11:00 that we finally headed out Interstate 10 toward San Antonio.  We were in Brother John Cook’s Honda Pilot.  Just as an aside, I sold Hondas from 1982 until 1994 and I must say Hondas have come a long way.  I still have enough gasoline in my blood that I instinctively appraise every car I get in, and the Pilot was a very nice vehicle indeed.  We four guys and luggage had plenty of space and were very comfortable for the trip. 
   Brother John Cook probably was the most uncomfortable one of us, mainly because he was doing the driving and it was raining buckets…all the way to the Drury Inn at IH-10 and Loop 1604.  We arrived there around 3:00 p.m. and in short order were on our way to our rooms:  John and his father-in-law in one and Brother Jerry Stewart and I in the other.  The Drury Inn is a very nice place…immaculately kept, handy to the church, with free breakfast, and free snack goodies from around 5:30-7:00 each evening.  Of course, at the price we paid we should have gotten free filet mignon dinners, but in the comparative price scheme of things, it was a good deal.  The hotel did not disappoint.
     Since it had been a long time since breakfast and it wasn’t 5:30 snack time yet, we decided to visit the attached Applebee’s for a late lunch, and we enjoyed the usual outstanding Applebee’s chicken salad, burgers, and whatever else the other guys ate.  By the time we finished we had just enough time to run upstairs and don our ties and jackets and head back down to the car.  The church, Hope Community Center, pastored by Brother Randy Scoggins, was only a couple of miles away, and we arrived about 7:00 p.m.  After standing in line to register and get our identification badges, we took our seats….close to the door (escape route, remember.)
     About 7:30 the first event took place which caused me to have a very unexpected flashback.  The lights dimmed slightly, and a large video screen lit up, and the first words we began to see along with ominous music and a gruff voice were “revolutionaries,” “overthrow,” “resistance,” “non-conformance,” “the status quo,” “giving our life to the cause.”  The video presented the message that we were to be revolutionaries in a hostile environment, fighting the status quo, and resisting every influence of the Evil One.  The message itself was no doubt sincere and in its hyperbole encouraged us to stand firm in the faith, but the terminology reminded me of 1966.
    In 1966 I was serving in the United States Air Force Security Service and  responsible for various intelligence gathering activities in West Berlin, Germany.  In that year I was with a group of intelligence analysts who had gained access to several Communist Party recruitment movies.  Designed to fire up a disgruntled populace, these videos and movies used the very same terminology as the video I was seeing at this men’s conference.  Don’t get me wrong, the message for us Christian men in the video was probably good, but whoever produced the video, I suspect, had no sense of history.  To some, being a revolutionary does not mean being a devout Christian.  But in all honesty, I’m sure the producers meant well, and I did not find it offensive, just really interesting.
    Well, anyway, we got through that without raising the red flag of revolution, and sure enough, the next event was an explosion of sound from the pulpit as we were primed and charged in preparation of this awesome, life changing evening.  Then the music started, and the second surprise fell into my lap: we were not deafened by a cacophony of thundering sound.  Oh, it wasn’t my kind of music, and I will argue to my dying day that it was not even “church music,” but it was at least bearable and at an acceptable volume.  The music was what I term concert music…entertaining, religious oriented, designed to get you out of your seat with its rhythm, joyful, even stimulating.  I will be the first to admit this style of music is conducive to enthusiastic praise, but, like when Houston Rockets player Dwight Howard slams home a thunderous dunk, there may be a jolt of excitement, but it is shallow and quickly fades.  Our churches have forgotten how to worship…a totally different concept of communication with God. (See blog “Praise…or Worship?”  http://www.bobdowning.blogspot.com/2010/05/praise-and-worship.html ) Our services now are measured by the amount of movement and decibels that are created. 
    There was a lead singer, stylishly dressed in some kind of jean-looking pants and either dark sneakers or boots, with his shirttail hanging out underneath his sport jacket (no tie), along with five or six women backing him up.  Well, anyway, to get away from the negativity, we survived the music and were happy our ear plugs stayed in our pockets.
   Brother Jerry Dean, however, did not make the conference because of a death in his church, but as a substitute we had South District Texas Superintendent Ken Gurley…not a bad substitute, indeed.  To Shirley and me he is Kenny because he grew up with us in our church in Baytown.  He is a few years behind Shirley and me, and of course, to teenagers, a difference of seven or eight years is like an eternity, so we did not associate with the Gurley boys very much, but we are well acquainted with their parents, whom we love and still admire to this day.  But Kenny…excuse me…Brother Gurley has been very successful in the ministry and has become a powerful preacher and pastor and very influential in the Texas District.  Over the years, every time I have heard him speak, his message has been powerful and memorable.  Friday night was no different.
       Zombies, interestingly enough, were his subject, and he tied their existence to the church and gave examples of spiritual zombies…alleged Christians who go through the motions of viable church members, but are spiritually dead and unproductive.  I won’t attempt to re-preach his sermon here because I don’t have the talent, but the message was to the point and applicable to each of us; attending church is not enough…we need to be living, productive workers for the kingdom of God.  Needless to say, he had his audience on its feet, and much rededication and recommitment was offered by us listeners after his sermon.
     I was sorry to miss my good friend and old Wyoming hunting buddy, Juan Rodriguez in service tonight.  I asked his pastor, Brother David Caruthers, of his whereabouts and he said Juan “had church duties this weekend.”  Maybe next time….  After church services there is (I think) a rule that all Pentecostals must go somewhere and eat, so we went back to the hotel and into Applebee’s and enjoyed a late snack.  Well, a little more than a “snack,” but we were hungry.
    Saturday morning we were dressed and packed by 7:45 and headed downstairs to the free breakfast, which was quite complete and very good.  These two days are playing havoc with my Nutrisystem diet plan, but I will recover next week…I hope.  By 8:30 we had eaten, checked out, and were heading to Brother John’s Honda to drive to the church.  As we were loading up the car with our luggage, Brother Fauss came gliding up in his recently purchased Corvette, a gorgeous 2004 convertible with a candy apple red paint job and tan convertible top.  I think I lost some of my “street cred” with my pastor when I traded my ‘Vette for another car a few weeks ago, but, what can I say? The ‘Vette was good for looking cool and going fast, but not too comfortable and I’m getting (choke) more…um… mature and prefer more creature comforts.  He greeted us, roared off, and we headed to the church…arriving there about 8:45.  At least for a change it was not raining, though it was a bit foggy.
    We started off with another video, not quite as in your face as yesterday’s, and the light-their-fire music started again.  I was surprised that there was only the male singer who-would-not-qualify-as-best-dressed singing…there were no backups at all.  A keyboard and a drum set (do we REALLY need anything else these days?) provided the music, (there may have been a bass player…I can’t remember) although the guy on the keyboard did have a microphone, so he may have backed up the lead guy some.  Anyway, they did their thing, and then we got to the preaching.
    Our own Brother David Fauss was the first speaker, and in venues like this, he carries on the family tradition proudly.  His dad, Brother O. R. Fauss, was, hands down, the best camp meeting and conference speaker I have ever heard, but I’ll tell you his son, Brother David Fauss, can fill his dad’s shoes pretty well.  He preached on the story of Elijah and Elisha, and the mantle that Elijah left for Elisha when his translation took place.  His message to ministers and saints alike: “Pick up the mantle!”  Like these two great prophets, we need to pick up the mantle given to us and use the power that we have been given.
      By the time Brother Fauss threw his coat (mantle) into the air, the place was rocking, and some guy ran up and caught his coat on the fly and put it on.  I was beginning to wonder if Brother Fauss was going to get his coat back.  Then there was the guy who bounced up and down the center aisle flailing his coat on the floor like he was putting out a grass fire.  I think that was supposed to be his mantle, but I couldn’t figure out what he was supposed to be doing with it. Two or three other guys were up around Brother Fauss shouting (literally) and waving about as he was attempting to preach.  I fully expected Brother Fauss to stop and say something like, “OK, let’s settle down a bit….”   Here’s a minister who will stop his sermon in mid-sentence if your cell phone goes off during a service.  But he kept preachin’ and the people kept shoutin’ and we all had a grand old time.  Toward the end of his sermon, he emphasized the need for the youthful ministers and saints to listen and heed the wisdom of the elder ministers.  At the very end, he asked all ministers over fifty years old to form a line at the front of the auditorium.  He then instructed the men under forty to walk by these senior ministers and be prayed for, and a long line formed for that purpose.
     Except we didn’t fit into either line.  So there we four guys stood…nobody within 30 feet of us while everyone else was either praying or being prayed for.  We felt hurt, and alone, and our self-esteem was shattered!  We started tearfully to go ask Brother Fauss, “Don’t we count at all?”   Had we become “disposable saints?”  Now, before you get all bent out of shape, we were laughing when we talked about this afterward.  We understood the point of Brother Fauss’s actions and appreciated the message he had delivered.  It was an outstanding sermon, which is what I fully expected when I signed up for the conference. 
     I would not have wanted to follow Brother Fauss in the pulpit to minister, but Brother Roger Blackburn, Men’s Fellowship Director for the South Texas District, did and preached, and preached, and preached a good sermon about rededication.  By the time he had finished it was 12:15 and it was decided to take a ten minute break, so we walked outside.
    We had been in our seats since 8:45, and, although Brother Randy Scoggins, the host pastor, was scheduled next to preach, the old adage was realized again, “The mind can absorb only what the end can endure.”  We were pretty well preached out, and someone mentioned maybe we should head back home.  A vote was quickly taken, and in five minutes we were pulling back onto Loop 1604 heading east.
    The weather had turned sunny and we had a good trip home, stopping in Seguin at a Chili’s for lunch.  I had another good fajita chicken salad.  I also ordered a hot chocolate melting cake dessert…only because it was my favorite dessert on the Carnival Magic cruise ship and I wanted to, you know, compare them.  The one on the ship was just right for one person, but when this one was brought, there were four spoons in it, and it was enormous!  And wonderfully good.  Fortunately my brethren saw my plight and volunteered to help me dispose of all the cake.
    The rest of the way east on IH-10 was uneventful.   We dropped Brother Jerry off first, and then I said goodbye to the two remaining friends about 4:45.
    The conference was worth the trip because of the ministry…but it was thoroughly enjoyable because I got to spend it with some of the greatest guys I have ever been privileged to know.

Cruising to the Bahamas


 
    When beloved in-laws Buddy and Jeannie Creel called in February to say they were taking a cruise out of Galveston and invited us along with in-laws Don and Beth Trumps, the idea of another cruise after our last December cruise was the farthest thing from our minds.  However, the prospect of spending some time with our old Casper relatives and Don and Beth was too much to resist, so we quickly agreed and in short order booked the Carnival Magic out of Galveston for the week of April 26-May 3, sailing to Key West, Florida, and the Bahamas.  After looking over the ship’s floor plan, we opted to go up a few levels to Level 12 and pay a little extra to get private spa privileges, also.  As our travel agent told us, “The private spa is worth it if you use it but wasted money if you don’t.”  We planned to get our money’s worth.  So we waited for April 26, 2015.
Sunday, April 26.   We had planned to drive to Galveston this morning, but with our regular Sunday School teachers, Brother and Sister Boothe, being absent and with my mother-in-law teaching the lesson, we decided to stay for just the SS class anyway and do our musical part and then leave shortly thereafter for Galveston.  We did so, and quickly headed home to change clothes and head south.  We had packed on Saturday, so we were ready to go once we left church.
    We left home about 11:20 and had smooth sailing until we got around Clear Lake on Interstate 45 where the traffic bogged down.  We were down to a crawl for about five or six miles when it suddenly cleared again and we cruised on into Galveston, down Harborside Drive to Terminal A where the Carnival Magic was docked.  The first impression upon seeing these cruise ships is their immense size.  The Magic is 1,004 feel long, displacing 130,000 tons…bigger than any battleship in World War II.  Fourteen levels consisting of staterooms, restaurants, party rooms, theaters, gambling dens, and every other imaginable vice and joy the human mind can imagine to place on board a seagoing ship.
    The usual procedure is to drop off your luggage at the terminal, drive to the parking area to park one’s car, then catch a shuttle back to the ship to board.  Naturally, since there are 5,000 travelers boarding the ship at approximately the same time, the traffic bogs down around the terminal and things are a little hectic.  This is where I nearly suffered my first heart attack.  As we neared the terminal to check our baggage, Shirley mentioned casually that she would like to find a bathroom (should have been a red flag for me right there.)  Upon pulling up to the baggage check in, I got out, walked around to the rear of the car, got our three bags out, and checked them with the baggage handlers.  I started to get back in the car, and saw Shirley as she walked away and disappeared around a wall.  The baggage handler even hollered, “Hey, Lady!” but she was gone.  I suspected she was looking for a restroom, but she had said nothing.  (There is some…um…discussion here…she says she told me she was going looking for a restroom.)  I shut off the car and got out, trying to catch a glimpse of her.  I suspected there wasn’t a restroom within a thousand feet, mainly because it was a baggage loading area and not meant for public use.
   So I impatiently waited….10 minutes….15 minutes…then 20 minutes.  With each passing minute I could imagine her being in a corner somewhere having been robbed, or she had experienced her first Alzheimer attack and had become disoriented and lost.  I tried calling her, and she never answered.  I was becoming very frustrated and tried to pray at the same time, which is a hard combination.  Finally….finally my phone rang and she said, “Where are you?”   She had discovered Buddy and Jeannie and was visiting with them!   I was relieved and more than a little upset at the same time, which is another couple of emotions that are hard to combine.  Somehow she thought I was going to park the car and then come back for her, but that’s not the way it’s usually done because where we board is not the same place as where we drop off the luggage.  Anyway, I was too relieved to feel anything else, so we drove finally to the parking area and abandoned our car for a week.  Even that took a while, because, after all, there are 5,000 people boarding the boat, most of whom drove their vehicles to the terminal, so we’re all parking and trying to catch a shuttle at the same time; hence the trip back to the terminal took about 40 minutes.
    The official check in then begins, with a showing of one’s boarding pass and health statement which confirms that one is not an Ebola carrier.  Security is next, with a flashing and confirming of one’s government photo identification (passport) and a trip through a metal detector along with a baggage check.  Assuming one is not a terrorist carrying explosives, the next step is up the escalator to Carnival’s check in, where we received our room keys and official “Welcome Aboard!”  The last journey is a trek up the long, long gangplank to finally enter the ship.  This description of check in takes only a few lines here, but it takes far over an hour to actually accomplish.  Long lines are at every stop and the walking distance from ground to ship’s entrance is probably a good mile in length.
  Once we entered the ship on Deck 3, we needed to get to Deck 12.  Naturally everyone else is trying to get to their respective rooms also, so the elevators are four deep in people waiting to board.  Another 30 minutes or so is spent trying to climb nine floors.  We eventually made it to the Spa Deck, Level 12, Room 12015, and entered our home for the next seven days.  The stateroom is practically identical to the one we had on the Triumph last December, which means that it is nice, adequate, and not a square inch to spare.  Being on the twelfth level, we had a panoramic view of Galveston, since we are probably 100 feet off the water.  But the room is nice.
    Eventually, we found out that Buddy, Jeannie, Don, and Beth were on Deck 10 in the Lido Restaurant, so we went down to see them.  They were nearly finished with their lunches, but we decide to see if we could find some food since it had been a long time since breakfast.  Every place was either shutting down to prepare for the evening meal or had not opened at all.  We finally found a line to get hamburgers. We waited for 20 minutes and the line closed when we were six feet away from the food….because it was time for the federally required safety drill.  We had to go find our emergency assembly area and trek (along with everyone else….i.e. long waits at elevators), to our assigned place.
    The Official Maritime Safety Training is a bit of disorganized mayhem as the “trainer” attempts to tell everyone how to don a life vest and to say calm as the ship is sinking.  Somehow, I cannot imagine that, in a emergency, that everyone will “calmly walk to his cabin, take his life vest and put it on, then proceed to his place of assembly, where he will be directed to his assigned lifeboat.”  Probably be more like “Titanic II.”
     Anyway, the training mercifully ended, and we went back to the hamburger joint and got a couple of hamburgers to tide us over till our 8:15 late dinner.  Our relatives had scheduled the late dinner seating, which is not preferred by Shirley and me, but we wanted, of course, to spend quality time with the family, so we went along with it.  We hardly ever eat at that late a time.  Buddy stayed with us as we downed the hamburgers, and it was good to visit with my old hunting partner.  Afterward, Shirley and I headed back to our room to unpack and get settled.  We were tired from all the walking and day’s activities, so there was a time of catnapping thrown in that time also.
   About 8:00 we headed down to Level Three to the Southern Lights Restaurant where, you guessed it, there was a mob waiting to get through the closed doors.  But at 8:15 the doors swung open and in a short time we were escorted back to our assigned table…a table for six very nicely located and elegantly decorated.  For the next two hours we enjoyed a wonderful dining experience with loved ones and great food.  I ate more than I have eaten in the last four months.  Very seldom does one feel full when enjoying the Nutrisystem weight loss plan, even though it works very well.  I will probably pay for the gluttony tomorrow, but it was very enjoyable tonight.
    By the time we returned to our room, Shirley and I were very tired, to say the least.  After a shower, it was to bed.  I guess we were so exhausted for the first couple of hours we didn’t notice the racket coming from next door, but about 1:30 a.m. I awoke and could hear a loud TV and lots of laughing and talking.  I tried to ignore it and plugged in my music again, but after about 20 minutes, I called Guest Services to complain and was told our neighbors would be asked to tone it down.  I dozed off, but about 2:30 I awoke again to the same noise.  This time I call Guest Services and really complained, and that seemed to do the trick…things quieted down.  Back to sleep.
Monday, April 27  We made it through the night with no other interruptions, thankfully.  We were tired and didn’t really start stirring until after 8:00.  The ride during the night was really bumpy with a lot of heaving starboard to port to starboard, occasional head on crashes into large waves, and tremendous wind.  Traveling faster than the Carnival Triumph at about 23 knots and facing 45-50 mile per hour wind gusts, it was like the ship was bucking a 75 MPH headwind.  When the ship hit a large wave it felt like a car hitting an unexpected bump…to the point that the bed jarred, and I thought Shirley was having a nervous jerk.  After listening and looking outside the window, it was clear we were in rough seas, and it would not be a smooth ride for a while.  I’m sure to the usual seafaring person, it was not cause for alarm, but to more generic landlubbers like us, it was a bit disconcerting.
    We met the crowd at the same Southern Lights Restaurant as last night and enjoyed a really good, leisurely breakfast.  Certainly wasn’t the usual Denny’s Restaurant menu as I had an English muffin with cream cheese and salmon, along with a good omelet with peppers, ham, and cheese…with turkey bacon on the side.  Even the coffee was good and the service was great.  Afterward, the ladies wanted to go to the Shopping Guide presentation, and Buddy and Don had something in mind, so I went back to the room and started on this dialog.  That lasted until the pitching of the boat began to make me feel a little queasy as I stared at the monitor, so I shut it off and lie down to rest my eyes.  The next thing I knew, Shirley was calling on the house phone to say they were back in the Level 10 Lido restaurant having lunch.  I was still full from overeating last night and breakfast this morning, but I went down anyway and enjoyed an ice cream cone as we visited.  Okay…two ice cream cones.   By this time, 3:00 was approaching, and Don wanted to go to a Veterans’ get-together in one of the bars, and Buddy wanted to go take a nap.  I didn’t have any interest in raising a glass to old comrades, and Shirley was wanting to go visit the spa, so off we went.
    Our stateroom was on the Level 12 Spa floor, so we were just around the corner from the entrance to the spa facilities.  We dressed in our bathing suits, put on the complimentary bath robes and slippers, and made our way.  Our first stop after checking our gear in the dressing rooms was the jacuzzi spa, a large heavily-jetted spa for approximately 15-20 people.  The most noteworthy item was, due to the pitching of the ship, we also had our own natural wave machine as the water sloshed from side to side to the point that the water was splashing out the ends, and we had to hang on to avoid being swept along in the tide.  But it was nice, and the jets were powerful enough to make you feel good to be sitting there.
    Shirley then wanted to try out some ceramic, heated reclining seats that were supposed to make the back feel good.  They were too hard for me, so I visited the Aromatic Steam Room, a wet oven with various pleasing aromas that are theoretically therapeutic for soul and body.  Definitely made you sweat, but it felt good.  After a refreshing shower, it was back to the room.  Looking at the weather and waves outside, it appeared that the swells seemed to be laying down a bit, although we still felt a jolt from time to time.
    We had about a two hour break to catch up on a bit of napping and writing.  About 7:30 we got our best clothes on and headed to the Southern Lights Restaurant for our “Cruise Elegant” evening of dining…the one time on the cruise when you are asked to dress up for dinner.  Although the dress code is supposed to be dinner jacket and tie for the men and dressy for the women, there’s always a segment of travelers which prides itself in being sloppy casual.  There were quite a few, however, more than on the Triumph, who did dress up in their finery and looked very nice. (We, of course, were among this group.)
    This is the night of the best menu, also, so I dined on lobster and king shrimp.  As an appetizer I had a fruit bisque…which sounds strange, but Shanna and Julia had bragged on it after their cruise a couple of weeks ago.  It was a sweet cream sort of gravy with strawberries in it.  It was good, but I missed not getting my usual shrimp cocktail…should have ordered both. As it turned out, the lobster was okay, but a little rubbery and undone for my tastes, but the vegetables were good.  My dessert was cherries jubilee, and again I regretted not ordering my usual melting chocolate cake with ice cream.  Actually, the whole dinner was very good; it’s just that on a cruise, one’s standards of quality rises as one expects only the very best in dining pleasure.
Tuesday, April 28  Up about 7:30 a.m. as we were expected in Key West port around 9:30.  With activities planned, we needed to be through with breakfast and ready to disembark when the gangplank fell.  As it turned out, we were not in quite as much of a rush as I expected since the bicycle trip I had decided to join Buddy and Don on was full, so I decided to go with the girls to shop Key West.  They in turn decided to not rush down the gangplank, but let the mobs get off first, so I had no reason to hurry.  As it turned out, Buddy and Don missed their bicycle trip anyway because they were too late getting to the rendezvous point.  They wound up renting individual bikes and taking off on their own.
     We remaining four disembarked about 11:15 and walked the short distance to the entrance to the main tourist part of downtown Key West.  Key West, the southernmost spot in the continental United States, dates back to the early 1800’s and pirate days, though it is more famous now as the primary home to the great writer Earnest Hemmingway, and more recently the hangout for musician Jimmy Buffett and his “Margaritaville” ensemble.  The home of Hemmingway and the Margaritaville Bar of Jimmy Buffett are two major tourist attractions in Key West today.  We walked the tourist area along Front Street and Duval Street.  The area is a conglomeration of high dollar diamond stores, eclectic island offerings, and made-in-Indonesia tourist trap souvenir stands offering $5.00 tee shirts for only $12.95 each or two for $25.00. Intersperse amongst the tourist traps were several beautiful buildings dating from the early 1900s, including the Clinton Square Market Building, the Chamber of Commerce, the Shipwreck Treasures Museum, and several other buildings which I cannot identify.  Charmingly little trolley-style cars and mini trains hauled tourist to all the points of interest in orderly fashion, allowing them to spend the maximum amount of money is the minimum about of time.  We even saw a sidewalk musician playing his steel drums in the melodic island fashion.  Most picturesque.  While we were walking in this island paradise, this distinguished gentleman (I assume) walked up to Shirley and asked, “Tell me, Ma’am, were you born beautiful, or did you just grow into it?”  Shirley replied, “Huh?” and I replied, “She’s already taken, Bud.”  He replied, “I wasn’t hittin’ on her, man;” he laughed, and walked off.  Not before making Shirley’s day, though.
     We did managed to buy a few souvenirs, since we are required by law or something to bring back some sort of trinket for each member of the family (not complaining, I am sometimes the happy recipient.)  I was trying to find something authentic…you know…from the earth of Key West, as it were.  But beyond the obligatory tee shirt saying “Key West” I couldn’t find much…until I entered a shell shop.  There in vast array were some of the most beautiful seashells I had ever seen…even reasonably priced.  At one time Key West was apparently know for its conch shells and was even known as the “Conch nation,” and there on the shelf sat these huge conch shells in magnificent shades of colors. I picked one out and took it to the checkout and casually asked whether all these shells on the shelves had come from the sands of Key West.  “Nope,” came the reply, “The conch shells came from the Bahamas because in the Florida Keys seashells are forbidden to be collected from the beaches.”  So now I have an authentic souvenir from the Bahamas…that I bought in Key West.  Oh, well.
     By this time Shirley and I were beginning to feel the mileage on our legs.  Not to mention it was approaching 90 degrees, and it had been a good while since breakfast.  We started looking for a place to eat, and apparently in downtown Key West, you’re supposed to shop now and eat later, because there was not too much to be found, unless you went into a bar.  We decided to walk back to the Magic and have a late lunch, since it was approaching 3:00 anyway, and we were tired of walking.  We were several blocks away from the boat by now so it took a couple of rest stops, but we made it back and reboarded.  It was actually a good move, because we beat the returning 3,000 people to the boat AND the restaurant on the boat….we had  lunch in the Lido before wandering back to the room.  Plus, a rain storm came about 4:30 as the multitudes were in line on the pier trying to get checked back onto the boat.  Sometimes the Lord just takes care of the old and helpless.  Around 6:00 the rains had abated, and the skies actually looked pretty good as the Magic began to creep away from the dock and aim itself toward Freeport, Bahamas.
    So anyway, we had a couple of hours to rest before dinner time, and took advantage of it in our stateroom.  We left a little early for the Southern Lights, swinging by the gift shops on Level 5, where they had a sale on odds and ands, including Freeport tee shirts, so I bought a couple.  At the restaurant, I ordered a flat iron steak with a shrimp cocktail appetizer. Afterward, Shirley and I agreed that so far, the food has been good, but not up to the level of the Carnival Triumph, where every meal we had was astounding.  For the first time in many years, I sent a steak back to the chef because it was tough and not done, and the replacement was better cooked, but was not tasty and it was still a little tough.  The shrimp cocktail  consisted of five really small shrimp that were soggy and not very firm.  All in all, not a memorable dining experience.  But we were with friends and we had a good visit.  Afterward, we all went to the fourth level to see if we could find any of the photos that the constant flock of photographers are constantly taking of you, Shirley and I, and Buddy and Jeannie could find none…only Don and Beth.  Buddy and I agreed that it was obvious they were not displaying the photos of the really photogenic people…just the, well, you know.  We did not tell Don and Beth of our conclusions.  By this time, it was nearly 11:00, and we all said our good nights and retired to our respective staterooms of abode.
    Wednesday, April 29  Awoke to heavy clouds and rain as we crept into the harbor at Freeport, Bahamas.  Shortly, the announcement came over the speakers that most of the tours had been cancelled for the day.  Although our Freeport Island Tour was not one of the cancelled tours, we decided that we didn’t want to get wet walking to the bus and would try to get our money back.  We went to breakfast at the Lido Restaurant on Level 10 and sort of took our time over a leisurely cup of coffee.  As we were doing so, the skies seems to clear a bit and the rain stopped, so we decided to go ashore anyway and check out the group of shops that were just off the gangplank on land.  In doing so, we realized that our tour was just loading, and the weather seemed to be improving, so we got in line to load up.  When I was asked for our tickets, I realized I had brought the wrong tickets…I had brought the ones for our tour tomorrow at Nassau.  The lady was very helpful, however, and issued us replacement passes on the spot, and we were able to board.
   The Freeport Island Tour promotes the idea of exploring the island of Freeport.  What you see is not too much.  Never saw a beach.  We wandered through wealthy neighborhoods and blighted ones and saw the magistrate house (courthouse) and various schools and churches. Especially churches…our driver was a devout Baptist, and he proudly pointed out his church as we passed.  He was friendly and helpful, actually…he just didn’t have much to work with.  The area around Freeport is the industrial area of the Bahamas, apparently, with oil tanks, a major container shipping shipyard, a marine drydock for even the large passenger cruise ships, and various other smaller manufacturing and shipping facilities.  Blue collar type of work.  As a result, most of the area is blue collar area with signs of wear and tear…not touristy, camera-ready scenery one would normally want to preserve for posterity.  The whole idea of the tour, anyway, was to get us to the Port Lucaya Marketplace, the “quaint” (tourist trap) area where one can buy “authentic” Bahaman crafts and souvenirs…not to mention “world-class” jewelry and diamonds.  It’s a mixture of high-dollar jewelry stores and eclectic hole-in-the-wall shops with the natives beckoning you to “come look, Sweetie, at these great bargains!”  It was there I found more conch shells like the one I bought in Key West.  Beautiful shells…I paid $15.95 for the one in Key West and thought it was a bargain compared to such items in the Houston area. Here, I found two places that were knee deep in beautiful conch shells….at $2.00 each!  Oh, well, it was a cheap lesson to learn: to get the best deal, always go straight to the source of the product.   We spent a couple of hours at the marketplace buying a few items.  Actually we ran out of money…primarily because all the merchants we bought from were cash only, and we did not bring much cash with us, thinking we would not need much.  Probably saved us some more unwise purchases.
     We made our way back to the ship…past the homes of Sidney Portier and the late Count Basie (“and his Band of Renown”) and various homes of rich eccentrics such as the guy who had hundred of statues of lions on his wall fence and in his yard…past the oil tanks that reminded us of Baytown Exxon and the shipyard with hundreds…maybe thousands…of shipping containers, and finally the drydock with the huge cruise ship perched up on scaffolding as workers welded and did whatever else to the hull.  We reboarded around 2:00 and after a stop at our stateroom, went back to the Lido for a bit of lunch.  Naturally, I picked up more food in the buffet than I could eat.  I am afraid that I will suffer a bit of a relapse on my Nutrisystem diet plan after this week, but I planned for it, so it will be simply back to the regimented eating schedule once we get home.  But for this week, I am going to enjoy some good food.
     We were due to set sail for Nassau about 5:30, but apparently they had spotted a squall in our path and delayed our departure until 7:00 p.m.  Lines were cast off, engines were revved up, and we pulled away from the harbor about dusk for what turned out to be a very smooth ride to our next destination.  In the meantime, the group of six met at our usual spot at table 573 in Southern Lights Restaurant, having been met by our personal waiter who greeted us all by name, placed our napkins in our laps, and brought us some fresh bread and butter.  I could get used to this. Tonight I ordered a turkey and butterfly pasta dish with vegetables that was very tasty, along with a appetizer of roast duck and oranges.  My dessert was sort of like the hot melting cake we all love, but rather with sort of an apple cake filling.  Quite good.  At this time Jeannie said she had located our photos we were looking for last night, but most of us were worn out from the day’s activities, and, since it was approaching 10:00 p.m. anyway, we said our good nights and went to our cabins.  It’s a rough life on the high seas….sleeping…eating…touring…walking.
    Thursday, April 29   We had to rouse up early this morning as our Private Island Beach Tour was to leave the dock at 7:30, so we were up at 6:15…just as the mighty Magic was slipping into its mooring in the harbor at Nassau, Bahamas.  By 7:10 we saw people disembarking, so we, without breakfast (!) hit the elevator button for Level 0 to exit the ship.  I guess because it was still relatively early there was no line at the checkout desk, and we walked over to where the mob stood in front of a tall, black guy holding a sign saying “Private Beach Tour.”  Speaking in his Bahaman clipped accent, he instructed us to follow him, and like in the story of the Pied Piper, we mice dutifully followed along…and followed…and followed.  Walking what seemed to be several lengths of the boat, we finally arrived at our destination…another boat.  Which seems logical, I guess, since we are going to some romantic, private island.  There were probably 100 people on board, and I think because of the early hour, most of us were sitting quietly, which in turn did not sit well with our energetic captain and first mate.  They were determined to get us fired up.  First:  “Who are the birthday people?”   No response.  “Who are the anniversary people?”  Silence. “Who is celebrating a divorce?”  (Laughter) No response. Finally he turned on the “Makarena” song loud and invited anyone to dance along.  Four or five girls and a couple of guys got into the spirit and burst into dance, and a few people clapped hands along, but we were just a disappointingly reserved bunch, he finally determined.  But when we come back to the ship, he promised, “We’re gonna have fun!”
    Balmoral Island is a private island a couple of miles out of the harbor that has been developed into a mini luxury beach resort that is one of the Sandals destinations.  Featuring lots of sand, a protected beach, opportunities to swim with dolphins and stingrays, and even a mini Starbucks and restaurant, it is a rather nice getaway from the maddening crowd.  Even with our boatload of people, there were plenty of room to roam, chaise lounges with umbrellas, clean restrooms, and nice water.  However, although we had been told to “bring our bathing suits and towels,” there were no dressing rooms, just bathrooms with no lockers or places to stash valuables.  Fortunately, Shirley and I have learned to travel light in affairs like this, and I carried a waterproof pouch for cards and money, and we left everything else of value in our safe in our stateroom.  The second problem was our tour began at 7:30 and it was 8:45 before we were able to stick our feet in the water.  And the first toe in the water was a bit of a jolt…it was chilly.  It reminded me of Hawaiian water…and the best way to get in the water is…get in the water fast.  I waded out a short distance, but then turned and just fell backward.  Once you caught your breath it wasn’t too bad.  The chilly effect of the cool water was compounded by a strong breeze, cloudy overcast skies, and moderate temperatures.  In fact, the day had been predicted to be rainy, but so far the rains had abated, and other than a little cool and windy, wasn’t too bad.  But it did put a bit of a crimp on the swimming.  In fact, Shirley never got in the water.  The cool breeze was enough to dampen her enthusiasm for getting in the water.
    It was a chance to try out Bobby’s GoPro III digital underwater camera he had lent me for the trip.  I wandered out further and fired up the GoPro, taking stills and movies both above and below the water line.  Only downside to the GoPro is there is no monitoring screen, so you take the photos by faith, hoping you’re aiming in the right direction.  I had taken a few practice shots earlier, and tried to download them to my Sony VAIO laptop, but, alas, my laptop is celebrating its fifteenth year and would not recognize the GoPro…plus it probably didn’t have the memory capacity to store HD movies anyway.  So I will have to wait till we get home to seem if my underwater selfie turned out OK.
    So I swam and videoed while Shirley read her latest book, with intermittent rest periods on the lounges.  Really a pretty nice time.  About an hour before we were to head back to the Magic, we decided to have a little brunch, since we missed breakfast, and besides, our tour tickets for this beach trip included lunch.  So up the beach to the Starbucks/restaurant we went and ordered.  The chicken wrap Shirley ordered and the grilled chicken sandwich I ordered were tasty and huge and included French fries.  They should have been tasty and huge since Shirley’s sandwich cost $13.00 and mine $16.00…but at least they were included in our tickets.  We dined and rested while we waited for time to board.
    About 11:15 we boarded for passage back to the Magic, and that was when I noticed the pens where the stingrays and dolphins were kept.  This place advertises “Swim with the Dolphins” and Swim with the Stingrays.”  The way Bobby and Shanna described it in Cozumel was that the stingrays and dolphins were actually wild creatures which you were privileged to swim with.  These poor creatures, however, were kept in what I estimate to be three to four acre pens at ocean’s edge.  The areas were heavily fenced all the way around so that the sea-loving prisoners could not get out.  It was sort of a water zoo.  I felt sorry for the stingrays and dolphins.  I will admit one dolphin seemed happy as it constantly jumped out of the water doing its acrobatics to the delight of the swimmers. Anyway, I was pleased that we would not be riding back in the boat we came in.  The return cruise was done without the cheerleading of the first trip.  However, for some reason, we were unloaded way around the docks from the Magic gangplank, and the walk back was probably over three fourths of a mile.  I gauge that from the fact that we were about four Magic boat lengths away from the gangplank…and the Magic is 1,000 feet long.  Shirley was really dragging, and I was feeling the effects of the long walk also as we plodded step after step….and then the rains came.  As we were heading toward the Magic, a new flock of private beach goers were heading to the tour boat to the island.  I had noticed that the skies had been darkening for the last hour or so, and, sure enough, about halfway through our walking journey back to the boat it began to rain…really rain.  One of the city cab drivers said, “Bahama liquid sunshine, man!” and laughed.  We made it to a covering and waited for a few minutes until it abated a little, and then we put our bath towels over our heads and finished the trip.  By the time we made it to the gangplank, the rains had faded.  There we met Buddy and Don as they were headed back to the tourist shopping areas to nose around since they had finished their kayaking adventure earlier.  We did not feel like going back to shop and continued to our stateroom.  Once in room 12015, we collapsed.  Overall, though, it was a fun trip.
    We rested for an hour or so, then decided to visit the Spa area and sit in the Jacuzzi to massage our weary bones a bit.  Enjoyed the powerful Jacuzzi, where you had to hang on to keep from being treated like a teabag in boiling water…then to the sauna for Shirley to toast on the heated, molded, ceramic seats.  I went to the aromatic steam room for about fifteen minutes, then to the sauna in the men’s dressing room.
    Or I tried.  As I opened the door to the men’s dressing room, there was a woman inside the door who said “Excuse me” and closed the door on me.  I noticed next to her leg was a walking cart, so I assumed she was perhaps helping some handicapped gentleman get ready for some exercise.  I stood outside the door and patiently waited.  About four minutes later, just as a spa attendant was walking by the door, the lady came out of the room pushing the cart and asked the attendant, “Excuse me, where’s the ladies’ dressing room?”  “Next door on the left,” he told her, and she pushed off, looking a little embarrassed.  If she looked inside the sauna in the men’s locker room, she got the shock of her life.  Anyway, I cooked to medium well in the sauna, showered, and went back to our room.  A few minutes later Shirley entered, and we decided to go find a little snack, since our dining time is 8:15.  At 5:00 on the boat, most of the buffets and snack places are closed, still getting ready for the evening meal, but we went to the stern of the boat and found a deli offering sandwiches, and enjoyed (for her) a tuna fish sandwich and (for myself) a ruben sandwich.
   Returning to our room, we swung by the photo gallery where we found some of our photos from the last couple of nights.  They will print them and we’ll see if we want copies sometime tomorrow.  Came back to the room and were surprised to look out our window and realize we were slipping our of the Nassau harbor.  The startup had been so smooth it was not even noticeable.  We now have a 62 hour cruise back to Galveston.  At 8:15 we parked ourselves at our usual table for an evening of fine dining.  I enjoyed a filet mignon with a small serving of short ribs…which I think must have been the same as roast beef…along with roasted potatoes and vegetables.  Tonight I reverted back to my favorite desert, the hot melting chocolate cake with vanilla ice cream.  What makes each of these dining experiences even more enjoyable is our waiter continues to bring us various forms of bread…wheat, white, rolls, French…until we finally just say, “No more, thank you.”  Our drinks are always bottomless…the wait staff never allows your drink glass to become empty, and are always pleasant and engaging.  The service is just nearly impeccable.  It’s nice to be treated like royalty for once in one’s life.  My in-laws were at their entertaining best, and the whole evening was thoroughly enjoyable.
    Afterward, there was a play or musical or something at one of the theaters which everyone (but me) wanted to go to, so I blessed them and sent them on their way while I retired to our cabin.  Finished the day with a little writing and then packed it in for the night.
Friday, May 1  Since we are now at sea on our return voyage, there was no reason to set an alarm clock this morning, so we were able to wonderfully sleep until we woke up.  It’s wasn’t really late…only around 8:00 a.m.  Which reminds me of an interesting tidbit I learned yesterday.  We had wondered about the times posted at each port as far as how we would know what time zone we were in, but as it turns out, the boat is always on Houston time…the clocks do not change for the various time zones the boat travels through.  So when port arrivals and departures, tour starts and returns, etc., are posted it’s always Houston time.  The result is one never has to worry about changing watch settings or worrying about a time change.  Handy.
    Whatever time it was, we awoke to a beautiful, sunny morning…the first we have seen on this cruise.  But it was also a little chilly on the high seas; the clearing weather front had moved through the areas last night, pushing away the rain and clouds, but also dropping the temperatures.  It was a little bit too chilly to be sitting on our deck this morning, but the clear skies and sunshine were welcomed anyway.  Considering the weather we’ve had these last three days, we were fortunate to get our tours in without interruption…in all three locations, Key West, Freeport, and Nassau, there were tours cancelled, but we were able to enjoy all of ours.
    Since we didn’t have to rush for breakfast, we went back to my favorite place for breakfast, the Southern Lights.  Impeccable service, just like in the evenings but with a superb breakfast.  I had chocolate chip pancakes for an appetizer(!) with an omelet featuring peppers, onions, ham, and cheddar cheese with a side of hash browns.  Interspersed through the breakfast were the usual bread goodies:  rolls, muffins, cakes, toast, etc., along with a bottomless cup of good coffee.  It is going to be a real downer to come back to earth nest week and go back to an eating regiment. 
    By the time breakfast was over, it was nearing 11:30, and we wandered back to our rooms for a few minutes and then regathered on the Lido level (Level 10), found a table, and played cards until nearly 2:00.  Suddenly someone realized that Bingo started at 2:15, and the consensus was this was the best way to recapture some of our frivolously wasted money…by winning at bingo.  So down to the Showtime Theater on Level 3 we went to get there in time to buy…excuse me…invest in some bingo cards to the tune of $30.00 for each of us.  Well, you have to invest money to make money.  There were three rounds of bingo with prizes from about $500 up to $750.  On the first round, tension mounted as Shirley was within one number of winning when some other person yelled, “Bingo!” to her dismay.  No problem…we have two more games to go.  The second session…well…we were not even close, but there’s always the last round with its biggest prize.  My heart beat began to rise as I inched closer to the prize and was one number away from winning.  All I needed was B-12, and I would have victory in my grasp and be financially solvent again.  Alas, the number called was B-13, and some other undeserving soul yelled the dreaded word, “Bingo!,” and my hopes were dashed.  Oh, well, one has to look at bingo sort of like playing the stock market…you invest, and sometimes you win, and sometimes you lose.  With a sense of loss and dejection we exited the theater…older but wiser.  It was approaching 4:00 and the girls wanted to go up on deck to sit in the sun and read, while we guys decided to go to our respective homes of abode and catch a nap, so the next hour or so was spent recharging batteries.
   Back to the Southern Lights tonight for the best supper so far.  I had escargot and a seafood sampler as appetizers.  The escargot was out of the shell in butter sauce; they were tasty, but not quite garlicky enough for me…but good, nonetheless.  The seafood sampler was just that…a sampler: one shrimp, a bit of salmon, and a scallop with a bit of sauce. In honor of New Zealand and in memory of the Moreaus I had a glass of New Zealand white wine to complement the seafood.  Very mellow with a good presence to use wine tasters’ lingo. The main dish was chateaubriand beef, with potatoes and vegetables.  The beef was wondrous, perfectly cooked and very tasty, and, of course, the various forms of bread and the bottomless glasses of tea were ever-present.  These are magical moments spent with good food and good family that one will remember for a long time.  Buddy and Don are great guys, Beth is funny without trying to be, and Jeannie is always her charming, irreverent self (I say these thing truly lovingly.)  I wish B and J lived closer to the rest of us, but their kids are anchored to Colorado/Wyoming, and I understand there is no greater pull than that of your children.  I mean, after all…Shirley and I are in Texas, aren’t we?  And it’s not because we loved Baytown.  Anyway, the dinner party didn’t break up until about 10:20, so we headed back to our stateroom for the night.  I walked out on our balcony to check the weather, and it was cool with relatively calm seas, but we have still yet to see a star in the sky during this whole trip.  Though it was calm, apparently there was still an overcast of clouds and it was dark as pitch.  At least it was not raining.  Lights out.
     Saturday, May 2  Our last full day at sea began at 8:30…relatively late for us.  I tried to call the other folks but could not figure out where they were, so about 9:45 we headed to the Lido for breakfast, where we ran into Jeannie in a food line.  We loaded up with breakfast, got a open seat by a window, and enjoyed a leisure (what else?) breakfast.  Eventually Buddy showed up, and we discussed major events of the day like when do we eat next and what’s next on the schedule.  There was a watch sale on Deck 5, and, though I have twenty or so watches at home, I felt I needed to get a couple more if I could find something I liked.  On Deck Five there was a mob around the watches…there were two long counters full of watches…all priced at $19.95 or $29.95 (so you know they were very high quality watches!)  This was the only day on ship to get a reasonably priced watch.  All the other days they were selling quality watches for 75% off…which meant you could buy one for as low as $300.00; or you could get a Rolex for as low as $3,995.00.  Although the temptation to buy a Rolex was great, I decided I’d rather pay my bills next month, instead, so I passed on the fantastic bargains.
    Shirley and Jeannie decided to go up to Level 11 for some sunshine, but I opted to return to the stateroom.  After a while, Don called to say they were in the Lido about to have lunch, so I went down to join them.  I wasn’t hungry, yet, so I picked up an ice cream cone along the way and met them in the Lido dining room.  Eventually, Buddy, Jeannie, and Shirley came in and we sat and visited for over an hour.  Buddy and Don were wanting to try their hands at traversing the overhead rope course in Deck 11, so we all went up a level and watched as the two guys, using safety harnesses, tight roped themselves around the obstacle course.  Nobody fell or slipped, so there were no anxious moments…except when Don teed off on the putt-putt golf course, and his ball left the course and nearly hit a guy sitting at a table.  No harm done, though, and all went well thereafter.  We sat in the sun and began to feel the heat thereof, until I finally got up to take a few videos, and the girls left to find a shady spot to read and crochet….yes…crochet.  I came back to the cabin and started to get semi-organized for tomorrow’s sad debarkation from the ship.
    By the time the dinner bell was about to ring, we were pretty well packed up and ready to move out tomorrow.  Since we were using the “relaxed exit” tomorrow, which means we were going to let the porters haul our luggage down 9 levels of decks to the debarkation area, we had to have our luggage sitting outside our door by 8:00 p.m. tonight.  So as we were heading down to the Southern Lights for one last hurrah, we sat our luggage outside and hoped it all stayed together.  The last supper (as it were) on board a cruise ship is always sort of melancholy and wistful, as everyone wonders where the week has gone and do you suppose there’s some place we could stowaway on board for the next cruise?  Alas, there is no place to stow away, so we prepared for the inevitable descending back into the real world.
    Tonight was prime rib night with baked potatoes, along with two appetizers, shrimp and vegetable rolls, topped off naturally by the fantastic hot melting chocolate cake with ice cream.  Definitely the Carnival’s signature dessert.  The wait staff serenaded us as is done on every final night with “Well, I’m Leavin’ on a Fun Ship….,” a takeoff on the song “Leaving on a Jet Plane.”  Sort of sadly fun, and they actually sing like they are sad to see us leave…they probably can’t wait to get a break.  Actually, there isn’t much of a break for them.  We disembark tomorrow morning and by noon a new hoard of excited travelers will be invading the ship.  Our last official act in the dining room was pass out the tips for our personal waiters.  One of the major expenses of sailing, I have found out, is the cost of tipping.  Each person is automatically charged $12.00 per day while on board…so for two people, that’s $168 for the week, plus one is expected (well, naturally) to additionally tip for “exceptional service,” which at $5.00 to $20.00 per pop (porters…luggage, waiters, stewards) can add up to an additional $100-$200 per week.  Oh, well, the service is usually impeccable and friendly…most of the tipping is worth it.  After wandering a bit after dinner, we settled back in our stateroom for our final evening.  At least by now, the skies had cleared, there was a beautiful moon, and the seas were calm; it was a smooth ride back to Galveston.
Sunday, May 3  We looked out the balcony window just in time to see us backing slowly into our berth at the Galveston dock from whence we had left.  Apparently once the Magic enters Galveston harbor it is spun around and backed into port by tugs.  It’s so slow, however, that unless one is outside on the deck, it is not even noticeable.  We had to vacate our stateroom by 8:30, so we went down to the Lido, Level 10, for breakfast.  We enjoyed one last breakfast in the Lido Buffet and awaited our turn to disembark.  Your luggage tags have zone numbers assigned, and debarkation is scheduled by zone number. We were zone 6, so it wasn’t but a short time until our number was called, and we began the long trek to our car. First it was down to deck three, where we were checked off the boat, and then we walked the long zigzagging gang plank down to the dock level.  The dock level is actually the second level of the customs building, so once we got into the customs area we had to go down another level to go through customs.  Here’s where we had a stroke of luck.  As we were walking by, one of the female customs attendants apparently saw Shirley was moving a little slow and directed us to a side elevator, where we were able to glide down to the main level.  Then, as we left the elevator, another attendant asked, “Would you like a porter to get your luggage?”  “Yes!” we gasped.  She waved this guy over and he asked us what zone our luggage was it, and then said, “Come on, we’ll cut through these lines.”  He pushed us through probably 500 people, got our luggage, and then took us to a side line for customs check that bypassed another mob of people.  Once we cleared customs, he carried our luggage out to the bus and loaded it for us.  That was the best $20.00 tip I ever spent.  Once on the bus, we were taken back to our car, where we unlocked, loaded up, and headed for home.  At 1:00 p.m., one week and one hour after we left home, we drove back into our driveway.  It was a wonderful week.
    Whether we ever go back to the Bahamas is debatable.  Freeport is more of a blue-collar, industrial area, sort of like Progresso, Yucatan, but with no colorful history to make it interesting.  We really can’t make a judgment about Nassau, since we spent all our time at a private island, which was very nice, but we didn’t get to see much of the history and color of Nassau.  I saw one policeman or official wearing a pith helmet and a white uniform, but that was the extent of the English influence we saw.  I suspect there is much more to see and do in Nassau…even if the U.S. officials have warned tourists to be vigilant due to the rising crime in there.  Where do we go next?  Stay tuned.